If a man tells a woman that he's not interested in anything but hanging out, having a few drinks and a chat, we (well, at least I) will take that for what it is - a drink and a chat.
In HK, if a woman tells a man the same thing, she immediately turns into the fox of a hunting party.
I enjoy talking to you but I don't want to lead you on. I don't do married men. So, nothing is going to happen. Nothing. Really. No, really!
And yet they keep pursuing.
Hong Kong is an infidelity buffet, and I'm most definitely a vegetarian.